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Lord Shiva.

Whenever someone tells me, sad or angry, referring to another person: "I do not understand!" I say I do not understand, that the fund itself understood and if not yet consciously so, sure with a little effort can do it, if you do, if he really cares. Say you do not understand an attitude or a way of acting is a proud reaction to it. So you feel morally superior, and perhaps without realizing it, becomes what he says does not understand something not worth knowing. Maybe you understand it would suffer even more, or maybe he would rethink his own worldview, or how much would that not understanding what he says is also part of himself. Angry because we do not understand that something is defendersnos before it, despise, absurd considering what is not appropriate or do not want to correspond with us.

Faith is a fundamental requirement for the miracle to occur. But not only faith works. As the old alchemists said: If you have faith, Imitate. Understanding works the same. If you really feel you do not understand, imitate that understanding, imagine what it would be if you understand. "

When I wrote about the quantum leap some people react psychologically uncomfortable as I have said. Immersed in a process in which trust, would not think they were wasting their time. And is that all too often make the mistake of taking the part for the whole, believe that exposing a possibility devalues \u200b\u200bthe possibilities already known. When all it does is dissolve enriches responses and prejudice, creating new ways of thinking that happens to us. Someone told me love: "To me the process I work." And of course they work. Been operating since humans started to tell stories. The sudden decision of consciousness, quantum leap, always available. It can also happen, we decide whether or not, in any part of the process. And I thought important to expose how it works and even provoke.

However, if you love someone, do not push me along a certain path, or give you advice. Both are attempts to take power. Only that person can help him find his own way to solve it feel to be resolved. And if you have chosen the way of doing this, we can only respect and promote this way. However much we weigh. Little as it suits us. If that person has chosen it is the "best" for her. Whatever happens. Take you where you ride. That person you love, for example, honest, brave, has risked as can happen in your life and in my life. But you are following your inner voice, and that makes me love her even more.

There are certain things I usually ask very often:
What do I do? Learn how to make your own decision.
What is right? There is no "right". There is the real thing, which is always "right." Whatever you want deeply. Only you, manifestándote as you are at that moment. Listen and act.
But what should I do? Des should make once and for all any "should." One can only do what is right when the fruit of desire and not from any self-imposed rule. What I think of you who look at you has nothing to do with you. They are only thinking.
How do I? Whatever you have decided ... begins to do so, and you will start de-covering the how. Or maybe you just understand that how when it's over.

Of course all these answers I give myself the first. As Richard Bach said: "You teach best what you most need to learn." And remember that you are free at any time to change the road, accelerating the process, or a quantum leap. Are the author of the story, besides the protagonist. You are the master and not the slave. There is only uncontrollable and inevitable process. We do not know where we go, but come on. That mystery ... Everything else is at your disposal.

And if you choose a process ... enjoy it. And if another is chosen to help him realize it. By respecting the process of a loved one can find, as a gift to that person will do it without realizing it, a process that had buried itself. And here I am. I chose a process, living a story he had written so far and I want to finish. I know how it ends, in part, but I want my brain understands I am able to live this adventure, I can. I feel with all my being I need to live. And I do not want my conscience to be an excuse for inaction. Why did not understand you?